Sir, we are compatible on all fronts, but I seem to be scared about the genotype issue, what is your opinion on this?
The area that scares you to the bone before marriage is the area you should carefully deal with, otherwise, your fears would become your tears in marriage; however, there are two ways to address this genotype issue.
Medically, you’d have seen how best it is for AA and AA to marry each other; AA and AS is a good combo, but the likes of AS and AS or SS and AS are no-go areas, do not let love be blind in this area.
However, if God’s leading you two together, I believe He won’t back down at the point where you have issues with your genotypes. The only issue here might be the level of your faith in accepting it or your fears are greater than your faith.
If it’s love and emotions that brought you together and your genotype issue seems to put you in asunder, it’s wise you back out. Don’t even be scared about it, opt-out because it’s a mismatch and it would bear its consequences on your children.
But, if God’s leading you two and you’re sure about it, take it up with Him in prayers for a solution to the issue that seems like a challenge. If you can pray your way through, you’d overcome. But if your faith can’t carry it, quit the relationship.
Don’t assume “Nothing would happen” when you haven’t prayerfully ascertained that “All is well.” In matters like this, boldface won’t work out, you have to clear up the path so you can walk on gold in marriage.
I’m sure you know that if you don’t deal with your fears before marriage, it would become an immovable mountain in it.
On the issue of genotype differences, if your faith is greater than your fears, ensure it is sorted out before your wedding day, but if your fears are greater, proceed no further with the relationship.
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You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.
