Sex is not a sin. God gave us organs and hormones that would prepare us to have it when it’s stimulated.
You can have safe sex. The media has promoted the use of contraceptives or staying faithful with a partner outside marriage to achieve that, but the truth is that abstinence and staying contented with marital sex is the only safe sex you can ever have.
Meanwhile, you can’t be in an immoral relationship and your chances of falling victim to premarital sex won’t be high.
The likes of kissing, caressing, fondling, and other sexually stimulating activities are nothing but sexual immorality. Don’t play with the fire you can’t extinguish.
Whether you believe it or not, sex is not love. A man can love you without going down there, and a woman can be your friend without luring you for sex. It all depends on the kind of person you’re in a relationship with and your values.
Sex is good. Medical science and researchers have proved its immense benefits for your health and body; but little do they mention when it’s not good for your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health. Sex is only good in marriage, anywhere outside that is abominable and sinful.
Sex is pleasurable and sweet. The moaning, pleasure, orgasm, feelings, and all the effect it leaves you with makes it good for the body, much to be desired and it makes you “feel” like a man or woman.
But…
Sex outside marriage is a sin that God Himself supervises its punishment. You may argue that but it doesn’t change anything; it’s outright evil.
It’s a sin against God who created it. Do you think He’d be happy with you for abusing the purpose of why He created it? He doesn’t understand your ideology that “body no be firewood” as an excuse to indulge in it.
More so, having illicit sex is a sin against your body. Everyone who has sex outside marriage brings shame and dishonor to their bodies. What contraceptive can’t avert, sex outside marriage would expose you to it.
Having sex outside marriage is a vice that affects society due to the widespread of single parenting, an increase in fornicators and adulterers where bad precedence is laid for the next generation.
Why is the issue of DNA testing becoming trendy news in the media? Because men and women choose to have sex outside marriage or before it.
See…
The devil has hijacked God’s purpose for sex, deceiving many to have it outside marriage so he can use it as a means to recruit their souls into his kingdom of darkness.
How do I mean?
Every illicit sexual act you have is a legal ground for the devil to invade your soul with the demons of sexual perversion and inordinate desire for it.
Now, many are becoming exposed to illicit sex and are defending themselves with reasons that sound like truths but are lies from the pit of hell.
Almost everybody wants to get the feeling of sexual pleasure when they’re not married even down to upcoming children 😜 Nawa o! Some married people aren’t faithful to their spouses anymore because of sex. Kilode?
If the reasons He created sex is despised, then sex becomes abused. Aren’t you an abuser of sex?
Sex is not a Valentine’s Day gift for singles or a means to appreciate what someone has done for you.
The prevalent longing for sexual intimacy and its involvement in almost all opposite-sex relationships has made many grown wilds in the pursuit of their lustful passion which contradicts God’s instructions.
Now that many do not want to acknowledge God in their knowledge of sex, He gave them over to a reprobate mind to do those things that are not sensible.
In case you don’t know, God created sex and the “how” and “when” it should be done. Lawmakers do not create it even if they legalize the perverted forms, neither do scientists or psychologists have a final say over it.
You can only be satisfied sexually in marriage by submitting to God’s word on sexual matters, embrace chastity, then stay away from sexual pleasure outside marriage.
And singles can embrace the discipline of chastity depending on the association they keep, their mindset or the choice they make; but remember that every choice has its consequence.
But to be honest, it’s difficult to embrace chastity in this present clime, but with the fear of God, understanding, discipline, and determination, you can do it.
Where are singles who have vowed to have their first-time sex only on their wedding night? Unfortunately, many are fast-breaking their purity vows because of the temptation and loneliness that comes with being single.
Satisfaction from sexual pleasure will never come with that sister or brother, a whore, a side chick, a sugar mummy, a sugar boy, your boyfriend or girlfriend.
It will only come with your husband or wife in marriage.
Hear this, having too many sexual partners and undue exposure to it steals sexual contentment in marriage, instead of bringing it.
It would be difficult for you to stay faithful in marriage when you have fragmented your soul with many sexual partners before marriage.
Resolve to be faithful today, for yourself and your spouse and you’ll save your home and society from the evils of sexual discontent.
May God help you to be sexually content as married couples and to embrace chastity as singles so you won’t be deceived by the lies of the enemy that destroys.
